I always have to contemplate if I should go with a date or not.
Having a date, I know I have someone to look forward to seeing and being with the whole night. I have someone to match with, share special dances with, get to know and have a good time with because I wouldnt care so much for anyone else because I have my date. I have someone to look cute for, vice versa, just to let everyone know Im yours for the night. Also, no one can pull a ninja, sneak up behind me and start dancing out of nowhere. If you’re my date, then I won’t ditch you. That’s just rude. Unless it’s established we can go dance with other people. Picture dates are cute too!
Not having a date can be good as well. I can scan through the crowd who gives off the same vibe as me and have a good time. But I don’t necessarily need another to have fun since I have my friends that know exactly how to keep me laughing. I can look good single and I’ll be ready to mingle. Hahahah.
Now the downsides:
Based on my experiences, I just feel like I’m dragging them with me everywhere whether its because they’ve never had a date or its with people they’re not accustomed to. “Let’s take pictures!” “Let’s go do this, that” and they just give in. I dont wanna take charge. I’ll just feel bad. I want you to have a say in things and plan too. I know that he has his own friends to be with and I sure as hell dont want to ruin that for him. If we have different crowds, and it seems like it doesn’t work out as well trying to compromise.. I try to avoid awkwardness but it happens when have different comfort levels.
Maybe I just want someone I’m fully comfortable with. That isn’t afraid to anything just to have the best out of the night. I believe that no matter what the situation is, your night can be defined by how well you spent it with the person. I’m honestly down to be the best date you’ve ever had, if you’re willing to do the same.
I’ve never really gone stag before. Lol, first time for everything. I don’t know.
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